This is a controversial website arguing against women fancying bad boys or bullies. Too much of the media tries to claim wrongly that it is somehow in some sick way romantic or sexy (due to their sick unromatic twisted logic) to support or be attracted to abusive men. I think that is sick. One of the causes of domestic abuse is women deciding to fancy abusive violent men.
Women should not fancy abusive men.
It is immoral and sick to support or fancy abusive men.
It is immoral and sick to see abusers as sexy and manly
There are sick immoral people who hate nice men more than wife beaters
Women should not fancy wife beaters
Women should not fancy bullies
Abusers want women to fancy abusive men.
Abusing women or men is sick and immoral.
It is not extreme to be against bullies.
Stop being an attention seeking snobby bullying thug
This is an article against abuse. In my view it is immoral and sick to support abuse and even sicker to be sexually aroused by abuse or by men who abuse. Too many people in society decide to see abuse and abusers as sexy and manly. This causes them to support the abuse of other people. It often causes women to stay with abusive men as they decide to see abusive men as sexy and manly.
Whenever I put this view forward I am normally patronized, ignored or insulted. When all I am suggesting is that it is immoral and sick to support the abuse of other people. Why should that be such a controversial or extreme thing to suggest.
Some people try to suggest supporting abuse is equal to being a lesbian and that we should tolerate supporting abuse, but that is an insult to lesbians. Lesbianism is a harmless sexuality, we should tolerate.. Whilst being sexually aroused by the abuse of others abuse is the deliberate actual support of the abuse of others. To compare lesbianism and supporting abuse of others people is like comparing adult heterosexuality to peadophilia. The reality is adult heterosexuality and lesbians are things we should tolerant.
While paedophila and supporting abuse are immoral and sick and unjustifiable, and should be illegal acts. It is not feminist to support abuse, Neither men or women should support abuse. Feminism is about equal rights not supporting abuse. Freedom to abuse or freedom to support abuse is sick. Not all men want absuive bullies to win. In fact only the sick attention seeking evil men want bullies to win. Why are the abusive types soimmoraly indignant.
People who fancy abusers are sick and give logistical, and ideological support to abusers to carry on abusing. I also find the fact they find abusive men sexy as deeply insulting. It is as insulting as you can possibly get. Imagine if you had been abused in anyway and then found out people fancied the men for abusing you. I am talking mainly about men bullying men, but definitely include other abuses. People who fancy bullies are sick and immoral and make abusive men win. Also they always seem to take sadistic pleasure in complimenting abusive men. They talk like it is kinky, original, inventive and sophisticated to support abusive men. Wen in reality is just sick, and immoral.
Often they seem to spend their entire time attacking nice men as disgusting and inferior and then they compliment abusive men as sexy and exciting. Then they even claim that is a feminist thing to do, they're more like Jews that support Hitler. .
Why can't women who fancy abusers see how insulting they are to me as a nice man. The worst thing is I bet they know they are being insulting but want to pretend they don't mean it. And all they do is compliment and support abusive men.
Loads of men know that loads of women support abusive men. The difference is I am against that as I regard that as sick, but they want that, because wife beaters want women to find them sexy. All abusive men want women to find them sexy, and manly for abusing people. They enjoy hearing women criticizing nice men as inferior disgusting burdens. Get that they regard nice men as disgusting. Wife beaters enjoy hearing women complaining about nice men, it is exactly what they want to hear, So what sort of sick supports abusive men who pick on women or men. Many serial killers are married to women who support serial killers. They even think it is honorable to stand by abusive men.
Some abusers even make the excuse that if their girlfriend fancies them abusing people that must mean they're OK people, even if the only reason she fancies the abuser is because he abuses people. Surely that is insane, dumb logic. You're girlfriend fancies you because you are abusive and yet you think the fact she fancies you because you're abusive makes you non abuse. That is insane logic.
The reality is it all comes down to the idea that abusive men and pro abuse women have that abuse is sexy and manly. Until this is countered they will carry on supporting abuse. This causes them to support abuse, more passionately than anything, in fact they think it is wrong and unmanly and disgusting and sickening, to not abuse. Infact as the pro abuse women are sexually aroused by abuse they are more supportive of abuse than any section of society often putting forward contradictory manipulative defenses of abusers and critics of non abusive men, and if you counter their sick ideology they regard you as sick even as they beat their wife.
They consiocuisly decide to fancy abuse. It is not an uncontrollable biologic instinct, as they like to claim. It if it was an instinct to fancy the most abusive men they would fancy even more abusive men, and men would fancy abusive women who kill other people's children. The reality is they DECIDE to choose specific abuses they will support. That is not instinctive, that is deliberate calculating support of abuse. Also I know some abusers will say we all have the capacity to support or commit abuse, but so what we all have the capability to drink cow urine, become rock climbers, chop off our private parts, learn Kling On, it doesn't we all do. It is not an excuse just to say we all have the capability to these things. It is deliberate decision to follow the ideology.
Another idea put forward is that anyone who criticism the idea of fancying abusers is dangerous. That is insane. So you have one individual who supports abuse regards it as sexy and kinky and thinks it is fun to abuse others. Then they regard that as not dangerous. Then one individual comes along and say that is wrong and you regard that as dangerous. Why can't you get it you support abuse you are dangerous and support abuse, where is the difficult calculation there.
Also the worst thing is when abusers regard themselves as the voice of common sense, or some women who gets turned on by abuse decides she is the voice of common sense. I mean why can't they see they're sick and immoral. They're not the voice of common sense. Some of them even given out advice, as if it is being mentally helpful.
Anyway they're not rebels they're the problem that rebels rebel against.
Most serial killers and serial sex abusers believe abuse is sexy and manly. Yet no one apart from me is prepared to counter their ideology I think this is because of women who fancied abusers at school and want to pretend even in adult life that they were the voice of common sense even when they got turned on watching their boyfriend abusing guys like me.
It should be seen as a mental illness and immoral to fancy abusers, it should be seen as a mental illness to see abuse as manly and sexy, as it is dangerous.
Here are a few more views.
The catch 22 of abuse
If you stand up to the abuser they abuse you more, and make the excuse that is serves you right for standing up for yourself. If you don't stand up to them they abuse you more and make the excuse that it serves you right for not standing up for yourself.
What are you talking about.
Often an abuser will give that put down if you try and argue against them.
The what did he do that for.
It annoys me when a bully picks on me then when I try and get them back they act like they don't know why I tried to get them back and yet then they talk about the things they did to me and saying things like I always knew he was bizarre that was why I did this and that to him. So I suppose they were getting their revenge for what I was going to do to them in their logic, So once again they remember what they did to me but don't accept I want have a justifiable excuse for wanting revenge. I'm talking about trivial things I do like shouting abuse back, at the abuser and then they act like what did he do that for.
People who hate mongs
Other people who annoy me are the people who insult people for beings mongs. There are loads of snobs who hate people they regard as mongs. I have written a list of people who get insulted by snobs these are mongs, nerds, sad people, blacks, gays, people with learning disabilities, fat people, skinny people, etc: You know basically I don't like insults, it really gets me down. The worst thing is there are women who support men who insult and abuse people it really annoys me that, and then they claim to be the voice of common sense. There is nothing more nauseating to me in the world than the sick phrase. Why do nice girls go for bad boys. I just say how can you be nice and support abuse. That is like having a book called why do nice guys support the holocaust. It is sick, you aren't nice if you support abuse or the holocaust. It is as illogical as having a title called why are left wing people right wing, or why is green red..That is the thing that really grates with me people who support abusive men thinking they can regard themselves as the voice of common sense. I can just about accept there are going to be people who fancy abusers just like i just about accept that there are dangerous abusive people you just about accept that. It is unfair they should be locked up, but unfortunately they exist. What I really think is beyond comprehension is this way that women who support abusers think they're decent people. The very idea they think they are nice people when they support abuse is sickening. I can just about accept that they're will be people who support abusers, I still think we should argue against them, but what is sick is they actuality think they're decent people, and if you ever say they're not, in seems to be the first time anyone has ever point out to them another perspective.
So they support abusive men they regard nice men as disgusting burdens. They get turned on by men abusing other men . They want abuse to occur, and yet despite all that they go around giving advice, even to guys like me. Even when they have publicity admitted to wanting nice men to die in terrible agony, they still in the next sentence decide to give you "advice". What exactly is going through their heads. They support the most incredibly abusive men and then decide the victims are supposed to listen to their advice, which normally concerns me jumping off a cliff, ofcourse they still have this idea that that is really deep profound kind advice, and that I'm ungrateful for not accepting their advice. I mean they do they have no idea that i might actually have feelings. Maybe it is because the men there are with are psychopaths, so they think all men like that, but the more likely reason is they themselves are, psychopaths. They regard people like me as trivial scum that doesn't matter. Which brings me to another point.
People who thinks their victims have exactly the same ideology as the abuser.
So the abuser thinks that shy or need or mongy people deserve to be abused, and if as a shy guy I admit I don't like being abused they get all amazed. And start demanding I get mental help because I DON'T LIKE BEING PICKED ON.
Yet if exactly same abuses were done to them or another sort of individual they would be against the abuses. So in other words they're basically like people who expect black people to think black people should be racially abused. What Find incredible is this lack of empathy to realise people have a sense of identity.
I relaise the people i disagree with have different senses of identity to me And that they support abusive people, while I support non abusive guys. I realise for instance that people who bullied me think that other abusers are amusing jokers. I realise. Wife beaters think all Wife beaters are amusing jokers. I relaise that. Yet abusive people don't seem to recognize the other side of the coin.
People who you would regard as Mongs don't like it when they get abused, I don't support the ideology of abusing them. I don't support that but Ido support the punishment of abusers. Which brings me back to my previous point. Women who fancy abusive men, And abusive men think that all non abusive men like me would think it would be a good idea for non abusive men like me to suffer terrible agony as punishment for being non abusive, Well I don't I actually think abusers should be locked up in prison, And I think mongs should be tolerated. I know you will find that the most startling, And confusing terrifying thing you have heard in your entire life but that is my view. I do not need mental help for saying that you need treatment if you disagree with what I've just said, as you are dangerous to other people you need treatment to protect the innocent, but you probably regard the people you abuse as trivial scum so you regard any pain you cause to us as trivial.
By the way people who hate niceness as are sick And immoral. Also nice people find nice sexy. Abusers find abuse sexy.
The worst thing is there will be women And men who read my article who will annoyed And angry at what I've written as if I started insulting them for no reason well I didn't. You insulted me by fancying abusive men or being abusers, I have done nothing, And wont do anything to you And I am simply pointing out to you it is wrong to support abusive men, And I would like to point out before you suggest otherwise women like you do cause me problems they do break me down And they build up abusive men.
I remember putting my views to one women in an Internet site And she posted loads of messages to me saying don't blame women like us for your hang ups. I just thought why not. You go And on And on about how you regard nice men as disgusting burdens. You go And on And on And on And on And on about how you regard abusers as sexy And exciting. You campaign for them to abuse more. Why wouldn't I get hang ups, or bitter about that. What do you expect me to do. I am not an emotionless being. When people insult people, people feel insulted. Believe it or not if someone insults me And suggests that all nice men should jump off cliffs, that sort of thing does hurt my feelings, just like you're obliviously angry as you read this article. Oh I forgot you're not able to empathize with others. Why are you allowed to be upset when people insult you but I can't even be upset, when you're the one whose actually is a dangerous individual in the first place. If anyone should be suppressing their own sick ideas And emotions it is dangerous people like you, And the sick men you fancy.
It does give me hangs up And bitterness. I know you find that incredible as you think men like me don't have feelings, And you think nice men don't have any emotions at all as that justifies to you my why you insult us, but we do have feelings. Believe it or not my lack of self confidence is caused by people who insult me And abuse me. It isn't caused by me making problems up And I've been insulted alot in my life, with insults you've never had to cope with, I was treated like scum at school, by pro abuse maniacs, while real maniacs were treated the like the voice of common sense, And that does cause me hang ups. It does cause hang ups when, when you're at school And people want you to die for being a mong, And then you turn on the TV And some maniac is saying nice men are disgusting burdens. That annoys me And It does make me bitter, It does cause me hang ups, And you'll probably try And give me some more hangs ups in response with insulting comments, And then pretend it's not your fault. I that is really scary to attention seeking evil bullying reverse logic scum, but It does annoy me it does make me bitter, And i won't And haven't done anything wrong you're the one who is the problem And I write this to make you change or atleast give you the other perspective, so you stop blabbering on and on and on about how you support abusive men as if it's really funny and clever. I am not the repiast, or the bully, or the wife beater or the paedophile, or the racist, or the extremist, the bad boys are.
Watch out for all the immoral indgination at my decent comment.
And i know some incredibly dangerous thug will feel the need to give mw advice. Well i don't need advice from a dangerous thug. Why do abusive scum think they should be habnding out advice. The next minute they want to bully me to suicide, Don't they work out who the problem is, and it is not me.
You cause depression in nice men and pleasure in abusers. If you think that is something to be proud of then you're sick sick, sick.
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